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In For Parents The Conscious Parent Ways to Grow ·

Why Do I Self-Sabotage?

In this series, we will be covering common triggers that emerge in a parent/child dynamic and what those triggers are actually revealing so parents can take steps to heal the associated wounds. What is a trigger? By definition, it is simply the CAUSE before effect. Just like stress can trigger a rash, your child can trigger an emotional response from you. Now, if we stick to the stress rash analogy, we know that stress isn’t the root of the issue; something also triggered the stress. Let’s say you’re late completing a ... Read the post

In For Inspiration Ways to Grow ·

The Key to Manifestation is Aligned Action

Google may supply you with the top articles on how to become a master manifester, but let’s be honest - if it was that easy we’d all be driving Lamborghinis by now.   I’m not going to list out all the ways to manifest because the information is out there. We know that visualization is important, we know that feeling how it feels to have something is critical.   We know that you need to know what you want and be specific about that want in order to attract it into your life.   However, I have ... Read the post

In For Parents The Conscious Parent ·

Parent Trigger Series: Perfectionism

In this series, we will be covering common triggers that emerge in a parent/child dynamic and what those triggers are actually revealing so parents can take steps to heal the associated wounds. What is a trigger? By definition, it is simply the CAUSE before effect. Just like stress can trigger a rash, your child can trigger an emotional response from you. Now, if we stick to the stress rash analogy, we know that stress isn’t the root of the issue; something also triggered the stress. Let’s say you’re late completing a ... Read the post

In For Parents The Conscious Parent ·

Parent Trigger Series: Unworthiness  

In this series, we will be covering common triggers that emerge in a parent/child dynamic, and what those triggers are actually revealing so parents can take steps to heal the associated wounds. What is a trigger? By definition, it is simply the CAUSE before effect. Just like stress can trigger a rash, your child can trigger an emotional response from you. Now if we stick to the stress rash analogy, we know that stress isn’t the root of the issue. Something also triggered the stress. Let’s say you’re late completing a ... Read the post

In For Parents The Conscious Parent Ways to Grow ·

Here’s Why Gentle Parenting Isn’t Working for You

Gentle parenting is a crock of shit. I said it, but you were thinking it. For the baby boomer generation, the fad was to deny and suppress the trauma altogether. You’ll hear your parents and grandparents say, well, you turned out fine, didn’t you? For Millennials, it is all about admitting we have the trauma, then doing nothing about it, which I  refer to as spiritual bypassing. Spiritual Bypassing is a form of avoiding or going around having to do the deep internal work necessary to grow. Things that fall into this ... Read the post

In For Parents The Conscious Parent ·

Talking Conscious Parenting on the Podcast Path of Me

Tune in below to hear about all things conscious parenting - the TUM way. Here our philosophy on conscious parenting is solely focused on the path of the conscious parent, because when we heal the root of the issue that healing ripples out and alters everything else. That means that when the parent is conscious, the parenting is as a byproduct, conscious.  I share my personal experiences with the wonderful Wendy Hutchinson, life coach and creator of Alinea Life Coaching. If you are interested in learning more about Wendy ... Read the post